The clock turned 10:30! The waiting father walks into the house’s entrance without having dinner with a severe face to the son who has entered the secondary or higher secondary. The boy stepped into the door. Slowly began the argument between father and son! Then how will a mother handle such a difficult situation? It should not work in the mind. Life becomes dull with a dilemma.
Father-Son Conflict Story:
The story of father-son conflict happens almost every day. As soon as the boy entered the house, chaos started. At this age, it is not acceptable to hang out outside the house till night without following the rules of the house. Playing computer games past 2 am, 3 am, or sometimes all night, disrupting all-day activities, inattentiveness, and even showing disinterest in going to school and college are all there. What happens as a result? The screams of the father and son make the neighbors sleep, and the angry laughter of the father and son also stops. Besides, there is vandalism. Both blame the controlling entity, “mother or wife,” the thread of every relationship. The mother has to endure all the roaring and bullying of the two men in the family. What should you do as a mother in such a situation?
Mothers should take steps to prevent father-son conflict:
1) Be patient:
When all understanding breaks down between father and son and little by little a glass wall forms between them, first calm yourself and be patient. Only you can break this glass wall of hatred, mistrust, and arrogance. As with all problems, there is a solution. Try to think that your family has not sunk into a dark world. Only you can erase the bitterness between father and son and make the relationship beautiful again. It would help if you had confidence and influence over the two men to escape this situation.
2) Define neutrally:
Try to understand both people naturally and neutrally. Each of the two may think you are speaking for the opposing party. Still, stick with it no matter how hard it is. When someone is alone in a good mood, try to broach the subject slowly and gracefully. Plan what and how you will say it in advance; everything will not be right in one day. You have to create the environment slowly. Be careful that the person you persuade does not understand your bias towards others.
3) Point out each person’s mistake:
If you spot any contamination from the start, try to eliminate it carefully and firmly. Or the days of running away after hearing the argument will never end. On the contrary, life will be poisoned by the pressure of two men. Remember, you may have anger, resentment, or grievances towards your husband for some reason. But his exposure should not be in front of the child. If his exposure continues in front of the boy, then you are unknowingly creating hatred or dislike in the boy’s mind for yourself. On the other hand, if you point out the son’s mistakes more than necessary to the father, then you are also poisoning the father towards the son without your knowledge.
Remember, you are a woman before you are a mother or a wife. This is your core being. Women are compassionate, slow, and patient. Only a woman can conquer all darkness with the brilliance of a woman’s intellect. Only your feminine nature can bind all the world’s relationships in a tightrope at the smiling hour of the morning light. Tell me where else a witch like a mother is needed to keep the family strong!