“Mama” – is there a secret in this little word! Mother is the source of all peace, contentment, faith, trust, and reliance in the world. No one can pay off the mother’s debt and never will. Each mother on the planet conveys her kid for quite a while, perseveres through excruciating work agonies, and carries her youngster to the radiance of the world. And if she is a daughter, a different kind of invisible bond is created in that mother-child relationship. May the mother be unknowingly lost in her own abandoned life. How many dreams he cherishes around his beautiful princess? How will the mother-daughter relationship be sweet?
Starting from lullaby songs, the mother turns the pages of her memories and tells her sweet daughter thousands of stories about her grandmother’s bed, princesses, fairies, and giants. With this mother’s mercy, the daughter makes a beautiful dream of her world. She grew up in Swapnapuri fearlessly, joyfully, unhesitatingly, mother’s princess. Mother solves all the problems of this princess in a moment. Mother has the magic of Maya. This is how the mother-daughter day goes with the magic of Maya. The girl who was startled by the sound of lightning on a stormy night, who hid her face in her mother’s arms, or who fell while running and felt pain – “Oh mother go!” Screaming, that little girl grew up with time! Before the mother and daughter could understand it, maybe one day, some disagreement appeared like a dark cloud. On that day, even in that dreamy sky, the thick black clouds of tomorrow Baisakhi can be seen.
And on the other hand, pride and shame began to accumulate in the circle of mother’s mercy. He counted every moment cherished with so much pain, care, and labour as a reward. Even in that intimate, strong bond, both feel alone then. But suffering is just a layer of dust in this holy and beautiful relationship. If you understand yourself in the wind of change, everything is as colourful as before!
A girl’s first and forever friend is her mother. However, if the girl is brought up under the fence of society, she will tell the picture – fewer friends, more enemies. Maybe you will say that the enemy is also yours. But what mother wants her daughter badly? What the ruler does is for the good of the girl. But you know what? As a mother, you are a separate entity, and so is your daughter, as much as you like to make people! He can never be your carbon copy. If you disagree, you might say, what did you get in life with such hard work? Such thinking is wrong. You can give your child intelligence but not make him feel. The girl and your growing environment are not the same; there will be some differences. You like Rabindra Sangeet. A girl might enjoy band music. There is nothing wrong with this. Don’t forget to make negative comments about the girl’s favourite song. Instead, accept the new one at least a little. If you listen to your daughter’s favourite music, maybe your daughter will also listen to your famous Rabindra Sangeet sometime. In this way, not only the song but every choice gives importance in this way.
I want to have such an understanding between mother and daughter that the girl can forget all the doubts and tell her all the troubles and happiness to her mother. Even if any unknown question of the growing age peeks in the corner of the mind, he can tell it to his mother frankly. A familiar scene in our society is that mothers get angry with their daughters when any such conversation is made to bring the child into possession. “Pakamo” or “mingling with evil” – worried. But if you explain a little and say – “Mom, these things are not for you yet” or “I will tell you later when the time is right,” the curiosity will somewhat decrease.
And it is better to share it with the girl as much as possible. If a girl expresses anger unnecessarily, don’t beat her by saying, “You are also the ultimate in rudeness.” Take some time. Explain well; pretend to tell the girl what behaviour bothers you. You will see that the girl will also understand her mistake. Try to understand what your girl wants.
In the cycle of time, the girl brought up in her lap is complete today. Today, the mother is walking along the same path she taught her daughter to walk on. He also consulted with his daughter about the details of the family. He even left it to the girl’s opinion that which saree would suit a dawa. Mother’s beloved daughter then closed her eyes and saw the path of mother’s old experience. Only in that way can one proceed safely.
How will a mother-daughter relationship be sweet when both understand each other? In the crowd of thousands of relationships, the mother-daughter relationship does not compare, no matter how much anger and pride she storms! All that anger and resentment fall away in the tide of love deep in the heart. No matter how big a girl is, she always finds peace, comfort, courage, and happiness in her mother’s arms. A mother’s role is infinite in building a beautiful life for her daughter. As the mother’s role in solving father-son conflict is endless, the mother’s role in developing the mother-daughter relationship is also essential. A mother is the only source of inspiration for a girl.