The story was supposed to be like this. For the past 10 years we have been by each other’s side, but when did we just stay by the side, we could not be together anymore. Long-standing habits ran away. Although the destination was the same, our paths were different. When did the sound end? Finally, both of us started walking on the path of separation.
Does the story above sound familiar? This is the story of your – my life, you will see this story if you look around. The time after separation or divorce is very difficult for the ex-husband and wife. Whether the divorce is mutual or mud-slinging, it hurts both. If the ex-couple has children, it is very difficult for both the couple and the child to go through this transition period. Whatever the reason, the paths diverged. Life doesn’t stop anymore.
For women who were housewives, this period was more difficult. Sufferers know how much financial solvency is necessary to hold your head high in society, especially if you have to walk the path alone. My post today is for women who are entering the second chapter of life.
It goes without saying how important it is for girls to be educated. In every area of life, your education will help you on the way, and save you from stumbling. I have seen many girls who I know quit their studies after marriage, thinking that it is better not to waste time on studies to give dedication to the world. As bad as it sounds, these girls get the biggest shock later in life. Many of those who used to work or do business before marriage stopped it due to the busyness of the family. They also eat push. Financial independence is very important to walk the path. When we understand this, it’s too late. I’m not saying you need to do the work. Do what you love most, what you are good at. You will earn, you will be busy, and your mind will be good. And if you stumble along the way, don’t stumble. You can do outsourcing, if you realize the design work, assuming you know photography you can do it without any problem. If you are great at cooking, you can begin a food business from home. If interested in crafting, painting, makeup, etc. you can also start it. If you are keen on baking, you can begin a cake production business at home. Also, there are many ideas for start-ups. Do what you have the expertise and opportunity to do. And most importantly, don’t stop studying.
Have a trusted partner for childcare. Take the help of relatives, if that is not possible you can hire a maid, and there is the option of daycare. Give your child enough time. Take him for a walk. Slowly explain to him about this transition in your life. One thing you ought to never do is discuss adversely about a parent. Regardless of whether your life partner is no longer with you, the individual is as yet the parent of your kid. Additionally, you do not want your child to have any negative childhood memories of their parents. It will harm the mental development of children.
love yourself Do things you like. But life doesn’t allow everyone to start the second chapter. Believe in yourself. Qualify yourself. And say – I am not vulnerable. And I refuse to be a victim.